Monday, February 7, 2011

North to Khabarovsk!

Train Trip to Khabarovsk

On Thursday evening, January 20th, I headed to the Vladivostok Train station to take a thirteen hour overnight train to Khabarovsk, a city on the Amur River, about 650 miles north/northwest of Vladivostok.  This was a long awaited trip that I had hoped to make last April.  Previously I have ridden on overnight trains in Russia and in Kazakhstan, so I knew what to expect.  A week before I planned to leave for Khabarovsk, my Russian friend, Sveta, went with me to the train station to help me buy the train ticket since sometimes it is hard for me to understand what customer service people are saying in Russian.  So it was a big help that Sveta came with me!    

There are several classes of travel, including a luxury class, but the least expensive is a compartment with four beds in it.  I chose that way of traveling!  I arrived at the station about an hour before my train would be called, and it was the first time I had been inside the station, which has a beautifully remodeled Main Waiting Room.  On the vaulted ceiling that reaches across the whole large room is a classical painted mural.  As you look up at it, you see two scenes across from one another.  The heads of people painted on each side are pointing toward the heads of painted people on the other side.  Since Vladivostok is the last stop on the Trans-Siberian Railroad that begins in Moscow, each side of the mural depicts the history and buildings of each city.   

To see a photo of one of half of the ceiling mural in the Vladivostok Train Station Waiting Room (and some more photos of Khabarovsk), see this web page:

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=57404&id=100000104723008&l=9d04447f92

While waiting for my train to be called, I wasn't sure how to get to the tracks, so I struck up a conversation with a Russian woman named Nadya who told me she was waiting for a friend to arrive.  She was very kind and pointed out the way to the tracks.  We also chatted about our lives.  Several people I have met in the Russian Far East ended up in the region because their husbands were stationed in the army there, and this was the case for Nadya, too.  When my train was called I saw that it was waiting on Track Three, by seeing that posted onlooking at the electronic "Arrivals" sign in the Waiting Room.  Heading the direction that Nadya had pointed me in, I headed down a big staircase inside the building, and then outside it to the area alongside Track One.

In order to reach Track Three, I had to go up some stairs that started on the platform and rose to a great height, to a bridge over all the train tracks with stairways down to each platform between two sets of train tracks.  As I made the trek up and down the stairways, I was sorry I had a small suitcase AND a carry-on.  I have never been accused of "traveling light"!  The worst part was not even the trials of going up and down the steep, high stair cases.  It was the cold, brisk wind off the Sea of Japan that hit me when I reached the top of one staircase and made my way to the other one to head down to the Track Three platform that made the biggest impression on me.   

When I reached the platform, I asked one of the uniformed train car attendants where my car was.  On my railway ticket it stated a particular train car number and a particular space in the car which correlated to a bed in one of the four-bed compartments. The train car attendant looked at me with an expression that made me feel that she thought it was a question I should have known the answer to, and pointed me toward the end of the train.  Finally I reached the right train car.   

At its the doorway, there was another train car attendant, and after checking my ticket, she admitted me, my little suitcase and my carry-on bag.  I walked down the narrow hallway and entered a compartment with four beds in it.  In compartments like the one I stayed in, there are two of the beds one above the other on one side of the compartment, and two more across from them.  There is also a little table connected to the wall of the compartment under the curtained train window.  Under the lower beds are places for luggage to be stowed.  Accessible from the upper beds, in the wall over the passageway outside the compartments, there is also a small, empty space where luggage can be stored.  People can also hang their coats up on coat hangers hanging from hooks alongside the wall with the doorway to the compartment in it.

There are little steel ladders that are folded up and attached to the wall with the door to the compartment on either side of it.  People who sleep in the upper bunks either use the ladders or hoist themselves up and down by putting their feet on the lower berths.  My friend Sveta made sure to request a bed on the lower section of the compartment for me.  My traveling companions were a married couple about my age and a young man in his thirties who told me he had worked on commercial ships and traveled to the U.S.    

When you ride on trains in the former Soviet Union, you can expect to be in mixed company.  In the past I have been blessed to travel with very courteous men who kindly left the compartment when it was time to get ready for bed.  Everyone sleeps in their clothes of course, and I have experienced a friendliness and gracious hospitality from my traveling companions in the past.  This was true of my trips to and from Khabarovsk, too.  On both the way to Khabarovsk, and on the way back, my traveling companions offered to share their food with me and most of them chatted with me in friendly ways.   

On the way back there was a young man from China who was studying Russian at a university in Khabarovsk who shared the compartment with me.  He traveled with us to Ussyrisk, and said he would have a seven hour bus ride from there to the city in which he lived in China. He had the upper berth across from me, and said he was heading home for the Chinese New Year holiday.  One of the other passengers in my compartment was a young Russian woman in her late twenties or early thirties who was going to Vladivostok on business just for the day and slept in the bed above mine.  In the middle of the night a fourth passenger came into our compartment, and took the bed across from mine.  He was a Russian man, perhaps in his late forties, who left the train before we arrived in Vladivostok.

It is not that easy to get a good night's sleep on the train, even with a fairly comfortable bed, and the sheets, pillow, pillow cases and wool blankets or down duvets that are provided.  The problem is that the train stops from time to time, of course.  So sometimes I was awake and just watched the full moon and the stars go by.  For some reason as the train moved fast along the tracks, the moon seemed to keep moving from left to right and then from right to left past the window.  Toward the end of the night, the morning star seemed to do the same thing.  When I sat up to look out the window, I often saw, under the bright full moonlight, the beautiful birch and pine tree forests which are characteristic of that part of Siberia.  

My train reached Khabarovsk around 9:30 in the morning after having left Vladivostok at 6:30 the night before.  One of the United Methodist lay leaders in Khabarovsk, Claudia Parfyonova, had been communicating with me by e-mail, and had promised to meet me at the train station.  I had told her the number of my train car, but even though I waited on the platform outside it for a while, I didn't see her.  Aleksei, the young sailor from my compartment, asked me if I knew where I was going and offered to help me.  I explained that someone was meeting me, but that she had not made it there yet.  Since I had told Claudia that I would be in the Waiting Room of the train station if I didn't see her right away, I tool Aleksei up on his offer.

Of course there was a tall staircase to traverse up to the bridge above the train tracks and platforms, and another long staircase to travel down near the train station.  I was blessed that Aleksei was quite a gentleman and helped me with my suitcase.  He had told me that he was going to Khabarovsk to visit members of his family, and had to head to a bus stop once we reached the sidewalk outside of the train station.  He seemed not to be sure I would be all right, but I assured him that someone was going to meet me, thanked him, and wished him the best.  Then I headed toward the main staircase in front of the train station to go to the Waiting Room.

As I began to head up the stairs, though, there was Claudia coming down them!  It was the first time we met, but the expression on her face was filled with joy, and I was very happy to see her, too.  She told me that we would have to wait until noon to check into my hotel, so we went to a little cafe and spent time getting acquainted.  Later, on the way to the hotel on that bright, calm, cold mid-winter day, Claudia showed me some of her beautiful, snow-covered city.  

Joy's Bible Study
Sometime after noon on Friday, my new friend, Claudia, got me settled into my room at a hotel named for the man Khabarovsk is named after, Erofei Khabar, called The Erofei Hotel.  Well-appointed and beautifully decorated, the hotel had some wonderful amenities including a cafe, a swimming pool, a hot tub, and a sauna.  Unfortunately, I had left my swimsuit in Vladivostok!   

Claudia and I had a snack together in the cafe.  We had a typical Russian soup with meatballs and a typical Russian salad with calamari, cabbage, and carrots with a big dollop of mayonnaise on top.  I also had some grape compote which is a thick grape juice with grapes in it, and I bought a large bottle of water to drink in my room.  After our snack I went back up to my room for a nap until Claudia came back to get me to go over to a friend's for a Bible Study.

It was dark when we left the hotel to head to Claudia's friend's apartment.  She told me that we were going to a monthly Women's Bible Study led by a woman who was a missionary from New Zealand named Joy. (See the photo above -- Joy is wearing an orange, black and white print blouse, and Claudia is sitting to the right of Joy wearing a blue turtleneck sweater.)

When Claudia and I arrived, Joy and two other women were already in Joy's apartment.  A while later two other women arrived.  Joy has lived in Khabarovsk  for seventeen years teaching English at one of the universities there and sharing the Gospel with students and other people she knows. 

I was blessed to be able to talk with Joy and to take part in the Bible study.  It turned out that at one time both Joy and I were each connected with an international, interdenominational missionary fellowship called Worldwide Evangelization for Christ (WEC).  She told she had elected not to go overseas with WEC, though, but has been on her own in Russia with the support of folks back home.  She is my hero!

My time spent at Joy's Bible study with her and the other ladies was really lovely.  When they heard that I am in Russia to share the seminar on traditional Wesleyan spiritual practices, they wanted to know more about it.  So I had a chance to tell them what it entails, and they said they liked it.  I told them that there was a Power Point presentation to go with the seminar, and Joy told Claudia that she would lend us the projector she has for use with a computer at the church we were going to be going to on Sunday.

After some prayer time, cookies, tea and fellowship, we all said good night to one another.  My new friends all embraced me as if we were well known to each other -- sisters in Christ. 

Claudia and I walked back to the hotel under a sky bright with stars, but very cold.  I am not as used to walking on ice as I once was when I was growing up in the Chicago area, or when we lived in Alaska.  So as Claudia and I charged from the sidewalk to cross the icy street, it was too much for me.  Because we were arm in arm (it is common to see two women or two young girls walking that way over here),  when I slipped and fell on the ice, Claudia fell, too.

All together I fell three times when I was in Khabarovsk, but only broke my camera.  I am not as young as I once was . . . either growing up in Chicago or when we lived in Alaska, so I am grateful that I didn't get hurt!


Sveta and ClaudiaWith Sveta and Claudia

One of the most lovely blessings of going to Khabarovsk was that Rev. Svetlana Tsoi, the Distict Superintendent  of the United Methodist Churches in the Russian Far East came from a city that is an overnight train ride north of there to see me.  In terms of the protocol involved in bringing my Doctorate of Ministry project to share with the pastors of the Russian United Methodist Church, I needed permission from Bishop Hans Vaxby in Moscow, and from the District Superintendents of the pastors I already knew, and those I met on this trip.  Rev. Tsoi, Sveta, was kind enough to agree to letting me share the seminar.  Beyond that, she went out of her way to come to see me, although she was also in Khabarovsk to visit with the pastors in her charge.

Sveta arrived on Saturday morning and stayed in Claudia's apartment with her until the overnight train back to her city on Sunday night.  They came to pick me up around 10  am, and we spent the day on the town!  It was a beautiful, bright, very cold sunshiny day.  Little sparkles of frost caused by moisture in the air danced before our eyes. 

We took a bus down to Lenin Square.  Since besides being a pastor and a district superintendent, Sveta teaches English to school children, we went to a book store with books for teaching English as a Second Language not far from the square, so that she could look for some new materials.  Then we had lunch together at a cafe which had a great menu of normal Russian cuisine that I love.  Both Claudia and Sveta were doing so much for me, I wanted to treat them to lunch, so they let me.  We had a lovely time chatting together before heading over to see the beautiful ice sculptures displayed all over  Lenin Square.

 I had always seen photos of big ice sculptures in big northern cities, but the only ice sculptures I had ever seen in person were swans or something romantic like them at wedding receptions. It turned out that a new competition was coming up, so we not only had a chance to see the ice sculptures that were already decorating the square.  We also had a chance to watch new sculptures being made right before our eyes.

You can see some photos of some of them by going to the following web page:

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=57404&id=100000104723008&l=9d04447f92

During the rest of the day we were taken on a tour of Khabarovsk by Claudia, who loves her home town very much.  There is an "Old Town" with buildings made before the Bolshevik Revolution.  And the city was built on three ridges, so there are some beautiful views from the top of each hill, looking down one side to the top of the other ridges.   

We also went to a plaza overlooking the wide curves of the  Amur River.  Across the river in the distance, we could see foothills in China. 

By late afternoon, Sveta was tired from her long night on the train, so we all retired to get a good night's sleep before the busy day that Sunday would be. 

A Baptism in Sinda Maksim's Ministry in Sinda

One of the United Methodist pastors who I was blessed to meet was Maksim Nikanorov, who picked up his District Superintendent, Rev. Svetlana Tsoi, Claudia Parfyonova, one of the lay leaders in Khabarovsk, and me in order to take us to worship at Pastor Elena Sokolova's "Light UMC" on Sunday morning, January 23rd.  His ministry is with people in a small village called Sinda, which is a two hour drive from Khabarovsk.  Sinda is in a region where a group of the indigenous Siberian people live.  Maksim said the region was set aside for them in a similar to the way there are reservations for native Americans in the U.S., although ethnically Russian people lived in the villages, too. The photo above shows Maksim baptizing one of the people who attend the church he serves.  

During the drive to and from Light UMC, I sat up front with Maksim and was blessed to be able to hear about his life and ministry.  Later that evening, he and his wife, Natalya, joined Svetlana, Claudia and me at my hotel.  It was lovely to meet Natalya, too.  All together the fellowship with Christian brothers and sisters in Khabarovsk was such a joy!

After I returned to Vladivostok, Maksim sent me several e-mails about his ministry and I want to share with you the praises and prayer requests he wrote about in the e-mails:

"PRAISES:

1.      Last time, I asked for prayers that my family would find an affordable apartment near the school my son attends.  Praise God, we were able to find exactly what we needed and we are now living in this apartment.
2.      This has been a very cold Winter, with much snow.  We praise God that our people were able to prepare for this season.  And we praise God that He sent our brother Sergei to help our invalid members lay up firewood for the winter.

PRAYER NEEDS:

1.      Our sister Anna, whose home has been our meeting place, needs to rebuild the floor of her home.  So, we have moved our meetings to Ivan's home until the repairs are completed.  We ask for your prayers for this need.  Anna and her husband are in their 80's, they are poor, and the floor presents a significant safety hazard.

2.      We ask prayers of healing for Natasha and her mother.  Galina is suffering with dementia.  Praise God that she was still thinking clearly at the time of her baptism in January.  We believe Galina may be nearing the end of her time on this earth.

3.      We ask prayers for Ivan, who we told you about in our last letter.  He had no feeling at all in his hands or arms.  He now has some feeling!  We are praying for a healing miracle.

4.      We ask prayers for our fellowship, that we would have the strength to continue meeting in the face of considerable difficulties.  As part of this, please pray that my vehicle will continue to work well enough that I can continue to visit the village regularly."

He also included some photos which you can see on this web page:

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=885040&l=7574927d4d&id=100000104723008


Kathleen Ware Harris  © 2012
kwharris777@gmail.com

Friday, January 14, 2011

Welcome Lily Jane!

Welcome Lily Jane Brown!
It's with great joy that I share this with you.

Here is the first photo of my son Tom's new daughter, Lily Jane Brown, with her Mom, Lisa.  She joins her big brothers Trevor and Drew, her big sister, Lexi, and her baby brother, Colin.

She was born on January 10, 2011 in southern California.

Can't wait to see her, but I am way across the Pacific Ocean in Vladivostok. Russia, as you know.  It was 23 degrees below zero Fahrenheit here yesterday, but warmed up to 2 below today.  *grin*

Today is the Lunar New Year, which all of Asia celebrates, it seems -- even the Russian Far East, here on the coast of Siberia.  This weekend will bring the end of the New Year holidays, and Russian Christmas was celebrated last Friday, so there have been weeks of holidays for me both this side of the world and back in the USA!

To top it off, I was so happy to hear about Lily's safe arrival and that she and Lisa are both doing well.  They got home yesterday and we thank God for all our blessings.

I'm heading downtown for a celebration dinner tonight with a friend.  Will be fun -- and the only challenge is to keep warm.

With Joy --

Kathy



Kathleen Ware Harris  © 2012
kwharris777@gmail.com

Sunday, January 2, 2011

First Sunday In 2011 -- Joy in Vladivostok, Sorrow Back Home

Joy in Vladivostok

Today it was a blessing for me to be able to see Pastor Valentina again. You may remember that we met last May when I was first in Vladivostok. On this bright, cold beautiful morning resplendent with sunshine, I took a taxi to the building where Pastor Valentina holds her Bible studies and worship services. I arrived just as she and Margarita, her church's musician and pianist, came to the front door of the offices of the Russian Peace Foundation. We worshiped in a good-sized room that on one side was wall-to-wall, floor-to-ceiling mirror. There were festive holiday decorations and a "Yolka" (see photo below) -- the traditional Russian Christmas tree than is also a part of New Year's celebrations -- a tradition that was kept alive in the Soviet era.

It was a joy to see Valentina again, to hear her inspiring sermon/teaching, and to sing the songs of praise and worship with together with some of the members of the Bible Study Group -- there were seven of us all together. Some of the songs we sang were traditional hymns sung in Methodist churches in the US, and some were beautiful hymns and praise songs set to Russian melodies. Before the others came, Margarita was practicing the hymns that Pastor Valentina had selected, and when she played "Velikiy Bog," AKA "How Great Thou Art," Valentina told me of how much she enjoyed singing it in Moscow when there were also men's voices added to the voices of the soprano melody line. I have heard it sung in Moscow with both men and women in the sanctuary, so I knew what she meant -- the rich Russian baritone and tenor voices added to the women's voices makes a stirring harmony. I told her that when I participated in "A Christian Ministry in the National Parks" at Mt. Rainier National Park, that was always the central hymn in the worship services, because it so much describes the beauty of God's creation in that park with its huge, snow-capped volcano in the midst of 650 year old Douglas fir trees and the great variety of wildlife there.

After the worship service there was a fellowship time when we shared pieces of two lovely and wonderful chocolate cakes and tea in celebration of the New Year. Pastor Valentina took me part of the way back to my friend's house on a bus on the mainline that goes to the area where they worship, and also to "beautiful downtown" Vladivostok (which IS quite attractive because of being on the harbor and due to the interesting architecture of the buildings, a mixture of modern and Tsarist-era styles.) There isn't a bus stop very close to my friend's house, and it was a very cold day, much more noticeable when we were walking around downtown for a while. So we called a taxi and parted reluctantly.

I am planning to join her and the members of the Bible Study Group again on Friday, which is when they will celebrate Russian Christmas, and also next Sunday, God willing. How lovely to be able to look forward to those times in the near future.

Sorrow Back Home

Still jet-lagging and hit one of those "walls" of time and weariness when I had that kind of headache, so I took some meds and had about a four hour nap this evening. When I woke up, I spent some time with my friend, and then came back up to my room and popped online to check my e-mail.

Sadly, there was a note from my daughter that her husband Daniel's sister Allison had passed away unexpectedly because of the flu. I was very dismayed and called them through Skype right away, since although it was after midnight here, on the verge of Monday, it was around 10 a.m, on Sunday back in Atlanta.

It is hard to imagine the grief that Allison's parents and siblings are feeling, but I trust they will all be comforted by the Lord as they move through this time of grief, and always. She was a beautiful, kind and creative young woman who had just seen her first play performed last fall at Northwestern University where she had been studying. I was blessed to meet her several times, and just pray that everyone who loves her will be able to trust that she is at peace in the ever-loving, everlasting arms of our Father in Heaven.

You never know what is next, and I heartily agree with what Daniel wrote on his Facebook page, "Parents, hug your kids every chance you get."

Although it seems especially sad to lose a loved one right after Christmas and at the very beginning of a new year, maybe it will help because it is a time when it is easier to remember the gifts of the Babe in the Manger -- reconciliation with God and eternal life in the fullness of God's love and joy. I hope it will be so.

May the Lord continue to bless and keep you and all those you love.

In Christ -- Kathy


Kathleen Ware Harris  © 2012
kwharris777@gmail.com




Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Moscow Journal -- December 30, 2010

Losing Tuesday


8:15 am



I was very grateful to have arrived safely in Vladivostok around 1:45 pm yesterday about 30 hours of travel time on four airplanes and layovers of at least three hours each in three airports (five hours in one of them). So from door to door, it was like this - I left my daughter's family's house in Marietta, Georgia, for the Altanta airport around 9:30 a.m. Eastern Time on December 27th. I have been blessed to have spent most of the last 17 months by helping out through being "Granny Nanny" for my sweet toddler grandson Jude, since a week or so before he was born and for his big brother, Seth, who will be five years old on January 24th. Then I arrived at my friend's house here in Vladivostok around 3 p.m. Even though I just napped a little bit while waiting for my friend to finish working, and went to bed about 10:30, I woke up about 4:30 a.m., jet-lagging. But that is to be expected!


It was good to get back here to Vladivostok and see everything with snow all over it. When we landed, the pilot said it was 3 above zero Fahrenheit, but it was sunny and not windy . . . the air was fresh, and I just had to get used to walking on ice again as we came down the gangway and walked over to a bus to take us to the terminal. Have some great ne VERY warm boots with good treads for traction . . . but I am a lot older than the last time I lived in the frozen north . . . in Alaska, so I need to hone my ice-walking skills. Or else! *grin* Don't want to fall.


Everything was fine going through customs and getting my luggage, and there was a taxi driver there waiting for me because my friend was working and she just had a cab sent to pick me up. There seem to be even more cars everywhere here than there was last May. The construction projects I saw in progress then have continued - especially along the highway from the airport which is quite a ways north of town - and some bridges that are being built in Vladivostok itself. Many of the new construction on apartment buildings in the city have been finished and all together things look good and prosperous.


Many of the billboards on the road sides and the banners over the roads were wishing everyone "Happy New Year!" So it was interesting to see them - some were from businesses and some were from the mayor of Vladivostok . . . maybe more of a campaign billboard. A lot of stores visible from the roads had banners with the New Year's greeting, too. Everything looks clean and shiny with the covering of snow, and the harbor downtown looked lovely from the main thoroughfare on a hillside above the downtown area.

When my friend got home from work it was great to see her again, and we had a lovely dinner with fresh bread prepared in her bread maker. Then we chatted a lot and got caught up some . . . watched an episode of "The Tudors" that she has on DVD, and then I pooped out and headed up to bed while she continued to watch T.V. until her bedtime.


This morning before she went to work for her last day before the two week New Year holiday here, we had some breakfast together and laid out the plans for the day. I have some errands to run and need to register . . . a requirement you need to get done within the first three days of being here.

Will write more later . . . oh! About losing Tuesday . . . of course because of flying all night over the Pacific, by the time I reached Seoul, it was pre-down on Wednesday, December 29th . . . even though of course it was only Monday the 27th when I left Atlanta. That pesky International Date Line! Brought back memories, though . . . the last time I crossed it going west was in 1985 when I went to an exercise in Korea with my friends, the F-15 fighter pilots with whom I worked in Alaska.


The layover in Las Vegas brought back a lot of memories of those pilots, too, since we deployed there twice for two Red Flag exercises. Also my son was married there in 1995 . . . and sometimes I end up going through there on Greyhound when I go from visiting my friends on the Western Slope of the Rockies to my son's in southern California. Anyway . . . I watched the sunset causing the Sunrise Ridge of mountains east of Vegas on Monday night - and last night saw the sunset over the hills of Vladivostok. Amazing how quickly you can get around, eh? Both sunsets were lovely as they all seem to be . . . and it's wonderful how much peace you can find watching them, don't you think?


Will write more later. Take care and have a safe and joy-filled New year's celebration!!


Blessings and Love -- Kathy


Kathleen Ware Harris  © 2012
kwharris777@gmail.com




Losing Tuesday

Losing Tuesday


8:15 am



I was very grateful to have arrived safely in Vladivostok around 1:45 pm yesterday about 30 hours of travel time on four airplanes and layovers of at least three hours each in three airports (five hours in one of them). So from door to door, it was like this - I left my daughter's family's house in Marietta, Georgia, for the Altanta airport around 9:30 a.m. Eastern Time on December 27th. I have been blessed to have spent most of the last 17 months by helping out through being "Granny Nanny" for my sweet toddler grandson Jude, since a week or so before he was born and for his big brother, Seth, who will be five years old on January 24th. Then I arrived at my friend's house here in Vladivostok around 3 p.m. Even though I just napped a little bit while waiting for my friend to finish working, and went to bed about 10:30, I woke up about 4:30 a.m., jet-lagging. But that is to be expected!


It was good to get back here to Vladivostok and see everything with snow all over it. When we landed, the pilot said it was 3 above zero Fahrenheit, but it was sunny and not windy . . . the air was fresh, and I just had to get used to walking on ice again as we came down the gangway and walked over to a bus to take us to the terminal. Have some great ne VERY warm boots with good treads for traction . . . but I am a lot older than the last time I lived in the frozen north . . . in Alaska, so I need to hone my ice-walking skills. Or else! *grin* Don't want to fall.


Everything was fine going through customs and getting my luggage, and there was a taxi driver there waiting for me because my friend was working and she just had a cab sent to pick me up. There seem to be even more cars everywhere here than there was last May. The construction projects I saw in progress then have continued - especially along the highway from the airport which is quite a ways north of town - and some bridges that are being built in Vladivostok itself. Many of the new construction on apartment buildings in the city have been finished and all together things look good and prosperous.


Many of the billboards on the road sides and the banners over the roads were wishing everyone "Happy New Year!" So it was interesting to see them - some were from businesses and some were from the mayor of Vladivostok . . . maybe more of a campaign billboard. A lot of stores visible from the roads had banners with the New Year's greeting, too. Everything looks clean and shiny with the covering of snow, and the harbor downtown looked lovely from the main thoroughfare on a hillside above the downtown area.

When my friend got home from work it was great to see her again, and we had a lovely dinner with fresh bread prepared in her bread maker. Then we chatted a lot and got caught up some . . . watched an episode of "The Tudors" that she has on DVD, and then I pooped out and headed up to bed while she continued to watch T.V. until her bedtime.


This morning before she went to work for her last day before the two week New Year holiday here, we had some breakfast together and laid out the plans for the day. I have some errands to run and need to register . . . a requirement you need to get done within the first three days of being here.

Will write more later . . . oh! About losing Tuesday . . . of course because of flying all night over the Pacific, by the time I reached Seoul, it was pre-down on Wednesday, December 29th . . . even though of course it was only Monday the 27th when I left Atlanta. That pesky International Date Line! Brought back memories, though . . . the last time I crossed it going west was in 1985 when I went to an exercise in Korea with my friends, the F-15 fighter pilots with whom I worked in Alaska.


The layover in Las Vegas brought back a lot of memories of those pilots, too, since we deployed there twice for two Red Flag exercises. Also my son was married there in 1995 . . . and sometimes I end up going through there on Greyhound when I go from visiting my friends on the Western Slope of the Rockies to my son's in southern California. Anyway . . . I watched the sunset causing the Sunrise Ridge of mountains east of Vegas on Monday night - and last night saw the sunset over the hills of Vladivostok. Amazing how quickly you can get around, eh? Both sunsets were lovely as they all seem to be . . . and it's wonderful how much peace you can find watching them, don't you think?


Will write more later. Take care and have a safe and joy-filled New year's celebration!!


Blessings and Love -- Kathy


Kathleen Ware Harris  © 2012
kwharris777@gmail.com

Saturday, June 5, 2010

More Reflections . . . June 5, 2010

Wishing You Joy, Peace and Love . . . Now and Always!  

Dear One –

I hope you are enjoying a beautiful June day, wherever you are.
Here in southern California the hedges are laden with honeysuckle and jasmine blossoms.  The smells are delicious!  There are trees in full bloom with lavender flowers and gorgeous bushes and vines overflowing with bright pink morning glories or lush fuchsia bougainvillea.  Here the lodgings range from mansions and beachfront luxury homes to apartments to old-style California bungalows.  There has often been an overcast of dense clouds, and my son tells me here near the Pacific Ocean this time of year is often characterized by “June gloom.”   The overcast of damp air and clouds wasn’t burned off by the sun until about 3 PM the other day.

Tom, baby Colin and I went to the beach where a bay comes into the ocean.  There is a breaker made of large black rocks and the area is called “The Wedge”.  A score of intrepid surfers, body boarders and other wet-suited figures challenged some large waves that peaked with a hint of indigo as the curl rose over itself right at the very edge of the water, almost.  On the beach we joined about twice as many people scattered in the area, some watching the activity of the surfers.

After settling the baby’s car seat and diaper bag, the beach blanket, and our flip-flops in good view of the oceanic dramas enacted in front of us to the lovely sound of the waves meeting the sand, Tom stayed with Colin, who was still sleeping.  And I headed for a walk along the edge of salt water and sand as the tide crept or flowed in, sometimes coming across my toes, sometimes surprising me by splashing all the way up to my thighs, drenching my bright green shorts, but gladdening my heart, feeling welcomed and remembered somehow by the big ocean.

Then later we watched a huge pod of dark grey dolphins cavorting in front of us, no doubt lunching on a wealth of bait fish.  Sometimes the fins of five or six at a time appeared and one even jumped right out of the water all together, the closest they came to us.  They were really show stealers, putting the surfers to shame with their playfulness and wet fellowship.

I thought about how I was at the other side of this huge ocean so recently, and of how many times I had flown over it and spent time on various islands in the middle of the deep.  I was musing about time spent on the atolls on the tops of huge undersea volcanoes, swimming in watered colored by the reflections of the sun on bright white iridescent coral sands.  I thought about other times on other beaches looking across various bodies of water . . .the Atlantic, too, of course, from Maine to central Florida, skipping down this way but not in this order:  Maine; Massachusetts; Rehoboth, Delaware; and Ocean City, Maryland; the Outer Banks of North Carolina at Duck; and the first visit to the Atlantic – Avalon, New Jersey, the summer I was fifteen. 

Virginia Beach; St, Mary’s Island, Georgia; Solomon’s Island, Georgia; too and then down to Florida: Jacksonville Beach; St. Augustine; the top of the Gulf of Mexico . . . Pensacola, a name beloved to some friends in the Navy, too . . . now sadly threatened by the gushing deep water oil well disaster . . . Satellite Beach, so dear to our whole family and my home off and on for many years . . . the beaches near Tampa; and of course Longboat Key where my parents have lived since Dad retired more than seventeen years ago . . . and all the way down back on the east coast to Jupiter Beach . . . back up to Sebastian were the huge eastern coastal waterway rivers empty into the Atlantic.


My thoughts turned not only to oceans and beaches and islands, but to the many people I love who are associated with those places.  Some are family members, many are friends and quite a few were comrades-in-arms in the old Cold War days.  Once a woman and I became friends while teaming on a spiritual renewal weekend in an Emmaus community in the Fredericksburg, Virginia area.  I later visited her and her husband along with their new baby daughter when I was already in ministry serving the three rural churches in West Virginia.  I was taking my first break, six months into the huge transition from student to brand new pastor.  They had moved from the Washington, D.C. area down to Pensacola, Florida.

I had met her husband at a potluck luncheon back on the fall of 1995.  We had lunch  with family members while teaming during that last fall in Seminary.  He was a helicopter rescue pilot, and I had been a non-rated aircrew member with a helicopter rescue squadron in addition to my main duties helping monitor the Nuclear Test Ban Treaty when I was first on active duty.  I used to fly with the helicopter squadron members when we had space launches and missile tests if a Soviet ship was off the coast of central Florida monitoring them.  I know I have mentioned this in other musings.  This was in the era of the first five test launches of the Space Shuttle in the early 1980s.

Anyway, when I met my team member’s husband, because the helicopter rescue community is very small, we talked about friends we had in common for a short time, but there were a lot of people at the potluck lunch and I really only spoke with him for a few minutes. 

About fourteen months later, when I visited them in Pensacola, my friend and I were sitting in the living room talking in the late evening, settling down to catch up with one another.  It must have looked to her husband like we were dug in for the night, so he headed to bed.   However, a few minutes later he came out of their bedroom again and had a funny look on his face. 
“Didn’t we meet sometime in the Air Force?  I feel like we may have dated before.” 

My friend looked understandably shocked, and I looked back at him with a confused expression on my face. This was 1997, and they had been married for about five years, as I remember.  Because the helicopter rescue community is small as I already mentioned, often those who work in it had to spend more time than many other active duty members on remote assignments away from their families.  We started asking each other where we had been where. 

It turned out that in spring of 1985 when he was still single and I had been divorced for a while, when I was working with the F-15 pilots who intercepted Soviet bombers exercising off the coasts of Alaska, I had accompanied them for about a month to South Korea.  There was a big annual exercise and we were stationed at a base in the southern area and they flew over the Yellow Sea in between South Korea and the east coast of China.

My pilot friends had made me “Commander-in-Chief” of shopping (CINC SHOPPING) and I had made two round trips up to Osan Air Base, where a good friend, Kent, from earlier days in the Air Force was serving his unaccompanied year, leaving his fiancĂ©e behind in Los Angeles.  The whole squadron had ordered Prussian blue flight-suit style outfits with a map of Alaska embroidered on the back.  On the front of the suits there was also embroidery depicting their flight wings and their tactical call signs.  You’d have to know them to understand why this was important to them. 

(Later, the first time they all wore them when we were in Japan for a week on the way home to Alaska, they all looked really wonderful in them.)

Anyway, I was supposed to check and make sure the Korean tailors had all the embroidered names right, etc., and check to see that the suits would be finished by the end of the exercise.  Within a few days of beginning our deployment, I flew up from Kwang Ju Air Base, where we were stationed, to Osan Air Base not far from Seoul.  With the help of Kent, I found the tailor shop in the maze of the nooks and crannies of the marketplace outside one of the gates of the air base. When I went back to pick them up near the end of our deployment, I also took delivery on a huge amount of wallets, purses, briefcases and other items made out of eel skin.  The pilots and their wives had perused catalogs and I was in charge of bringing those eel skin dreams to reality.

O.K.  So, the first time I was up there, Kent had given me a tour of his work place, and then had to be on duty until dinner time.  We made arrangements to meet at the Officer’s Club for dinner.  I was sitting in the lobby of the “O” Club waiting for him when two men in the usual “green bag” flight suits with helicopter rescue badges on them walked into the lobby from the main door of the club.  One was a good friend I had flown with in Florida. The other one turned out to be . . . you guessed it . . . the future husband of my friend from the Emmaus team in whose living room I was sitting in eleven years later!

We all laughed when we realized it.  After knowing them as a couple for about four years, it turned out I had met and had dinner with him along with my other two friends about six years before the two of them had met.
 
Sadly, though, I found out two summers ago that my friend, Kent, passed away about three years before that.  The things you can find out through internet search engines.  You don’t always want to know all of it.

But it’s better to focus on the loving memories and fellowship that goes beyond time and space.
 
Poignant. 

Endearing reminiscences.

But back to the other side of the Pacific so many years after that time.  My son was on active duty as a US Marine when he participated in the same type of exercise in South Korea exactly ten years after I was there.  And here we were together with his sweet baby boy on the other side of that big drink of an ocean, so often not at all pacific. 

And I also couldn’t help thinking about the tensions between South and North Korea over the sinking of the South Korean naval vessel by a North Korean torpedo launched from a submarine in late March.  If only all that wasn’t still going on . . . like a broken record, but affecting so many lives in so many negative ways.

Jumping back to a few days ago, on the way to where we parked, we saw two tourists with rented surf boards and no signs of wet suits crossing a street and heading to the beach.  Tom talked about how good it was the tourist season wasn’t in full play yet.

We commented on which houses we liked.  Tom seems to prefer the Mediterranean style with orange or red-tiled roofs and fanciful arched windows and doorways.   I liked some of them, too, but mostly just enjoyed seeing the variety and creativity displayed in the architecture of the houses as well as in the verdant and sometimes fanciful gardens.

Oh, and I don’t think I told you that last Saturday I took a walk with all four of my Southern Californian grandchildren to a nature center on the back bay.  The area is the top of the same inlet that Tom and Colin and I watched empty into the Pacific the other day.  Colin was in the stroller and Alexis, Drew, and Trevor were troopers walking along with me, or running ahead sometimes.  The nature center has wonderful displays and is architecturally very interesting.  You can look out of those big binoculars on the roof, or you can continue down the path to the center itself.

Inside, there is a children’s room with puzzles, snakes, spiders, turtles, books, and coloring papers.  There are all sorts of nature displays about the flora and the fauns of the tidal marshes and the hillsides covered with tall grass.

We all had a lovely time.  On the way home, though, it was getting hot.  Tom and Lisa had been out doing errands, and Tom came to pick us up in the car, meeting us a few blocks from their home.  We had probably walked about six miles all together and I was filled with joy from the opportunity.

When I started to write this I was thinking I would tell you more about the contrasts I have seen in Russia, Ukraine and Kazakhstan between 1994 and now . . . but I guess we’ll do that next time, OK?

Hope you have a blessed weekend.

As ever – Kathy
Consider the Lilies of the Field
[Jesus said,] “Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?

Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature?

And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin:

And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.

Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?

Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?

(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.
Matthew 6:25-34

Kathleen Ware Harris  © 2012
kwharris777@gmail.com